Tuesday, July 18, 2006

problems everyday you can't run away

Problems at work; problems at home and problems on relationships, you cant run away. Even doing nothing too has its own problems. Like boredom. Like no friends. Like no contact - a hermit. Like social grading zero. So the problems are every where. You breath it. You smell it. You cry over it. You act on it. Today's problems let it stays. Dont bring into tomorrow unless it is absolutely important to do so. One like relationship. It can't solve in a day. It may go on for months yet the answer seems so faraway....The problems we see or hear every day running into these headings - man, woman, relationships, money, work, children, socialization, family, friends..Most of the times these are the problems made the scenes. It makes alot of miseries and heartaches and headaches too. Yet people survive to breathe and share their experiences but people still never want to learn. The same story keeps repeating with different people and background. The gist of the problems are the same melting pot of soup - tasty, hot and burning.
When problems come to your door, you make it known to close friends and relatives. Write it down and stare at it. You dont have to do anything yet. Just digest it in your mind. Play it or act it in your mind. See what reactions you have or what you can do. This exercise will help you stay focus for any eventuality. When it really happens, you know where to look. You have been there in your mind. So you aren't alone. You know your way. Of course if you want to cry, let it out. It is no use hiding in a gloomy mind. Let the tears flow man or woman. It makes good feeling. So dont try to hide your emotions; let it out with tears or a scream. You will feel alright after awhile.
When your mind is clear then you can focus your problem(s) at hand. You will find an answer or solution which will ease your mind. Nothing is impossible. Everything can be broken down to pieces and pick one that needs attention immediately and go for it. In this way, you get it done faster and you will find progress in your life.


Malaysia.....past decisions will come to haunt the administration

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