student molesters

I read today's newspaper on student molesters in school. This wasnt a new thing in school. It had gone for many years that students are not well behaved in schools. The Education Ministry and school boards new about indiscipline amongst students. So when this new item hit in the newspaper, I thought the authorities never put plans into action. Long time ago it was the gangs in schools. I doubt they had brought it under control except now the schools kept it within its compounds. A few years ago I read a school teacher caught 2 form six students had sex in the lab. What happened after that it wasnt saying anything. Every time when I read about molesting and raping the authorities are quick to point to pornography or materials related to sex. Aren't we all engaged in sex in our lives? It is the upbringing in the homes and in schools. One can see thousand of those shows, read books or magazines it doesnt mean one will become a sex maniac attacking the females or vice versa.....It boils down to our behaviour and thinking. It doesnt do with what one sees or reads. To me it is too hollow to pin the blame on these sexual crimes. Read it in history. It happens in ancient times without all these candid materials in circulation. It boils down to one's reach in maturity and parents and teachers who take part in the children's development. I am wondering when the authority is going to introduce sex education in schools. Are they too shy to teach? When I was in secondary school, my scout teacher used to talk to us about sex and copulation. When I looked back at least we got a basic grounding through our scout master. I met him many years ago and he related this story to me. My junior in school got married. He couldnt perform his sexual obligation to his wife. This former student called the scout master telling him his problem. Because the scout master opened up to his students. So this was how he could teach them about sex eventhough the guy just got married. He adviced him to masturbate before having sex with his wife. It worked perfectly! The next morning he called his former teacher to thank him for his advice. Even adults are facing problems in sex education. It is high time this subject should be taught in schools.

Now on this current case, no parent should blame the school. No school principle should hide from the fact that it did happen. Advice must be tampered with sincerity. We can't make them an anti-social misfit which will become worst for the general public. Tell them the truth of their actions and make them aware of what they do is wrong without consent. Face the truth. Face the fact. Everything will be fine eventually.


Malaysia.....a great place to stay with some hiccups in our midst