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Threesomes Within a Christian MarriageJune 8, 2005

When a man and woman have joined together in a loving and holy marriage union, they may sometimes find that their love for one another and for God spills over outside of their relationship. Or they may find that other people are drawn to the joy, bliss, and passion that they radiate. In such situations, the desire or opportunity may arise to involve a third individual in their relationship – to form a threesome. Is this a temptation into sin, or a calling to a higher spiritual love? The answer is not clear in all situations, so we must turn to the Scriptures for guidance. Is a Christian Threesome Possible?
The possibility of a threesome, or ménage a trois, brings up two main issues of concern to Christians, those of homosexuality and adultery. Much has been said about Biblical prohibitions against both of these behaviors, but we must look at this situation carefully in context to see how and whether these rules apply. Let’s first consider the problem of homosexuality as it relates to a threesome. It’s common knowledge that in several passages in both the Old and New Testament the Bible prohibits homosexual acts between men. Although two men having simultaneous sexual relations with one woman may not have any overt homosexual contact between them, the act of sharing a woman and being together in a sexual situation is nevertheless homoerotic and suggests implied homosexuality, as well as presenting a temptation to experiment where one may ordinarily not. For this reason, we feel it is best for a couple to avoid bringing another man into the picture.
Most people assume the Biblical prohibition against male homosexuality also includes sex between women – lesbianism or female bisexuality. However, this is a questionable conclusion, since the Bible makes little or no mention of women with regard to this subject, and because the Bible, for better or worse, often holds men and women to different standards regarding sex and sexual roles. Therefore, we believe that lesbianism cannot be seen in the same light as male homosexuality through the Scriptures.
The one passage that is frequently cited as condemning female homosexuality is found in Romans 1:26-27: "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions: for their women exchanged the natural use for that which is against nature. And in the same way also the men abandoned the natural use of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts…” The idea of women going “against nature” is typically interpreted to mean women lusting after women. However, we believe that what Paul is referring to when he speaks of women “going against nature” is not female homosexuality per se, but rather the reversal of sexual roles that goes against the natural order established by God.
Of course, this does have relevance to the issue of female homosexuality, as many lesbians do assume masculine roles and attitudes, adopt male clothing and mannerisms, and play the part of a male in their relationships with women. Women who fall into this category (“butch” lesbians, or “bulldykes”) are indeed going against nature with regards to their sexuality. At the same time, however, there are many women who engage in lesbian or bisexual activity who nevertheless maintain a traditional feminine role and demeanor (i.e., “lipstick” lesbians). Since there is no specific prohibition against lesbian sex, as long as these women remain within the boundaries of the female role prescribed by Scripture, and submit to the authority of the men in their lives, we assume it is permissible. Of course, if their husband or father objected, that would be another story. Isn’t a Threesome Adultery?
This leads directly to the subject of adultery, and whether female bisexual relations would be considered adultery in this context. This is another Biblical gray area, because within the Scripture and within the codes of Biblical law, adultery is always represented as intercourse between a man and a woman, specifically between a man and another man’s wife. Numbers 5 describes in detail the procedure for trying and punishing a woman for adultery, a process that can be initiated by the woman’s husband if his “wife goes astray and is unfaithful to him, and a man has intercourse with her.” or “(I)f a spirit of jealousy comes over (the husband) and he is jealous of his wife when she has defiled herself, or if a spirit of jealousy comes over him and he is jealous of his wife when she has not defiled herself.” (Numbers 5:12-14) Since a husband’s jealousy can be aroused whether or not his wife has actually had sex with another man, what is pertinent here is not the act of extramarital intercourse, but the husband’s feeling of being wronged. So a wife’s lesbian activities, even though not in the parameters of what the Bible defines as adulterous behavior, could nevertheless be considered adultery if it makes the wife’s husband jealous.
Of course, many heterosexual men, rather than feeling threatened by lesbian sex, are fascinated by it, and in this case, the exploration of the wife’s sexuality with another woman could actually serve to draw the husband and wife closer together. However, in this situation we must ask what degree of participation is appropriate for the male, and how should he conduct himself so as not to commit adultery against his wife. This is a slippery slope, but if we look to the Scriptures, we can establish some guidelines for what is permissible.
The Old Testament is full of references to Biblical men, such as Solomon, David, and others, who had not only multiple wives, but also harems of concubines at their disposal. Today the practice of polygyny (one man having multiple wives) is illegal in most places. Although we can acknowledge polygyny in principal, we must recognize and honor the primacy and priority of the marriage bond between one husband and one wife. Whenever a third party is introduced into this equation, it must only be to support and strengthen the existing marriage bond between those two individuals. So, if bringing in another woman would in any way undermine the relationship between husband and wife, it should not be pursued. Playing by God’s Rules
If, on the other hand, a married couple feels their relationship would benefit from them establishing a loving involvement another woman, out of respect for the couple’s marriage, and out of respect for any marital attachments of the other woman, they must abide by certain limits and conditions:
(1) To avoid the impropriety of male homosexuality, a heterosexual couple should not under any circumstances form a threesome with another man.(2) Both women involved in the threesome must be willing to keep within traditional female roles (i.e., not taking on masculine appearance or behavior in or out of the bedroom) and recognize the male as the leader in the relationship.(3) If the wife’s lesbian sex partner is unmarried, it may be permissible for the husband to have relations with her only with his wife’s consent.(4) If the wife’s lesbian sex partner is unmarried, but the wife does not wish her to have relations with the other woman, the husband should respect this.(5) If the wife’s lesbian sex partner is married, her husband must not have objections to the relationship.(6) If the wife’s lesbian sex partner is married, the husband should refrain from having any sexual relations with her, and should make every effort to control his fantasies about her. He should concentrate his attention on his own wife. The latter case is the most difficult for the husband, since he must not only refrain from having relations with the other married woman, in order to avoid making them both adulterers, but he must also refrain from having lustful thoughts about her, because of what Matthew 5:28 tells us: “But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” In this situation it is recommended that in order to avoid temptation, both the husband and his wife’s female partner focus their attentions and affection on the wife. If the husband finds it difficult to control his thoughts and fantasies about the other woman, it may be helpful to realize the meaning of this passage, which is that if you commit an act in your thoughts, it’s the same as committing it in real life. If a man imagines having intercourse with a married woman, then indeed, he has committed adultery in his heart. Instead, we would counsel this man to imagine that same married woman having sex with his wife; by taking himself out of the picture, he renders himself blameless. When in doubt, a married man would do well to apply this same principle in any situation involving a threesome with his wife and another woman.
To summarize, we feel a Christian threesome is morally acceptable if it meets these conditions: It must be composed of one man and two women, all of whom recognize and maintain proper sex roles for men and women in and out of the bedroom. All married members of the threesome must consent to the arrangement and have consent from their spouses. And finally, the purpose of the relationship must be that it ultimately strengthens the existing bond between husband and wife and allows all three parties to share and celebrate their love of God

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Oral Sex in Accordance with God's Will

Since the publication of our original article on anal sex and God’s will, we have received several inquiries asking to clarify God’s position concerning oral sex. We are gratified that so many Christians are hungry for the word of the Lord and are actively seeking the Truth so that they may fulfill His plan in all areas of their lives.
The Good News About Oral SexLike anal sex, oral sex is the subject of much confusion and disagreement among the faithful. There are those who say that oral sex is unnatural because God did not intend our mouths to be used in such a manner. Others associate oral-genital contact with the sexual depravities of Sodom and Gomorrah. As you will see in the Scripture, neither one of these views is supported. Not only that, but oral sex has benefits that are of particular importance to Christians: oral sex allows the natural prevention of unwanted pregnancy and is an alternative to premarital intercourse for those committed to preserving their chastity before marriage.
There is nothing in the Bible that forbids engaging in acts of oral-genital contact. Oral sex has wrongly been grouped in with “sodomy” and the sexual sins of Sodom and Gomorrah. As we have seen with anal sex, this argument does not hold water, because the sins of the Sodomites were specifically homosexual and/or nonconsensual in nature. There is no way this could be extrapolated to argue against a heterosexual act of oral sex for mutual pleasure. On the other hand, the Bible does contain some favorable references to oral sex, some in poetic language and some more explicit.
“His Fruit Was Sweet to My Taste”In Christian discussions concerning oral sex, the Song of Solomon is most frequently cited as an example of scriptural allusion to the act: Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. (Song of Solomon 2:3)
While the previous passage refers to fellatio, the following can be read as a metaphor for cunnilingus: Awake, O north wind, and come, wind of the south; make my garden breathe out fragrance, let its spices be wafted abroad. May my beloved come into his garden and eat its choice fruits! (Song of Solomon 4:16)
And again, the Song of Solomon urges lovers to eat and drink freely of one another’s bodies: I am come into my garden, my sister, my spouse: I have gathered my myrrh with my spice; I have eaten my honeycomb with my honey; I have drunk my wine with my milk: eat, O friends; drink, yea, drink abundantly, O beloved. (Song of Solomon 5:1) This reading of the scriptures portrays the act of oral sex as both natural, like eating, and a joyful expression of love, passion, and sexual sharing between a man and woman.
In the New Testament, this passage directs partners to render “benevolence” to one another, which can be extended to performing oral sex on each other as part of their duty to the Lord and one another: Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. (Corinthians 7:33) Not only does this passage imply that oral sex between a man and woman is acceptable and desirable, but as we shall see, the Bible also provides more specific edicts concerning the completion of the oral sex act, namely swallowing the male emission.
The Necessity of Swallowing - The Sin of Spilling SeedMost of us are familiar with the Biblical story of Onan, whose sin against God was that of spilling his seed on the ground:
And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. 10 And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also. (Genesis 38:9)
This scriptural passage has traditionally been used as an injunction against masturbation. However, upon closer reading, it becomes apparent that this scenario has nothing to do with masturbation at all. Onan was not masturbating; he was copulating with his brother’s wife (and there was a good reason for that, in God’s plan). His sin was pulling out (coitus interruptus) and ejaculating on the ground rather than into the woman. He did so in order to avoid impregnating her. However, he could have easily avoided God’s wrath (and the penalty of death), by simply having the woman fellate him and then swallow his semen. This would have kept him from impregnating her, as well as completely prevented the spilling of seed that was an offense in God’s eyes.
The extreme case of Onan aside, how bad is it in general to spill semen? The Old Testament ranks it with other acts of uncleanliness that meet with God’s disapproval: And if any man's seed of copulation go out from him, then he shall wash all his flesh in water, and be unclean until the even. 17 And every garment, and every skin, whereon is the seed of copulation, shall be washed with water, and be unclean until the even. (Leviticus 15:16-17) Getting ejaculate on oneself or one’s clothing results in uncleanness that requires extensive reparations and atonement. Obviously one simple way to prevent the spillage of semen is to have your partner perform fellatio and swallow the emission. In fact, in light of these scriptures, performing fellatio to completion and then spitting out the resulting emission seems almost unthinkable.
The Benefits of Swallowing - Drink of the Living WaterAside from swallowing semen as a measure to prevent the waste and spillage of seed, ingesting ejaculate can have spiritual benefits, as we will see. Although the Old Testament makes reference to the bitterness of semen (And he shall cause the woman to drink the bitter water. [Numbers 5:24]), the New Testament casts the act of consuming ejaculate in a much more affirming light, as in the following passage, where Jesus speaks to the woman of Samaria about the gift of “living water”:
Jesus answered her, "If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, "Give me a drink,' you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water." 11 The woman said to him, "Sir, you have no bucket, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water?...15 The woman said to him, "Sir, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water." 16 Jesus said to her, "Go, call your husband, and come back." (John 4:10-16)
“Living water” in this context refers to semen, which literally is the liquid of life. As Christ indicates, drinking of the “living water” provides a spiritual replenishment for the soul. When the woman asks Jesus where she can get this “water”, he tells her to fetch her husband, clearly with the intention of instructing her on how to fellate him and swallow his semen.
Oral Sex in ChristIn summary, we can say that the Scripture supports and even encourages the act of oral sex between loving heterosexual partners. Moreover, the Bible specifically encourages fellatio to completion (orgasm) with the female partner consuming or swallowing the ejaculate. This prevents spilling seed, which is an affront to the Lord, and also provides spiritual benefit to the receiving partner. Oral sex has the added benefits of preventing unwanted pregnancies and helping couples satisfy their sexual urges while preserving their chastity until marriage. For these reasons, all Christian men and women should feel confident and comfortable including oral sex as part of their sexual life in accordance with God's will

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Anal Sex in Accordance with God's Will
Are you saving yourself for your wedding night? The Devil wants you to fail, that’s why he puts stumbling blocks in your way. But God wants you to succeed, and that’s why he has given us an alternative to intercourse before marriage: anal sex. Through anal sex, you can satisfy your body’s needs, while you avoid the risk of unwanted pregnancy and still keep yourself pure for marriage. You may be shocked at first by this idea. Isn’t anal sex (sodomy) forbidden by the Bible? Isn’t anal sex dirty? What’s the difference between having anal sex before marriage and having regular intercourse? Let’s address these issues by debunking some myths about anal sex and God's will. “I thought the Bible said anal sex was a sin.”
This is a common misconception. Anal sex is confusing to many Christians because of the attention paid to the Bible’s condemnation of homosexual acts. However, it’s important to realize that these often quoted scriptures refer only to sexual acts between two men. Nowhere does the Bible forbid anal sex between a male and female. In fact, many Biblical passages allude to the act of anal sex between men and women. Lamentations 2:10 describes how “The virgins of Jerusalem have bowed their heads to the ground,” indicating how a virginal maidens should position themselves to receive anal sex. Another suggestive scripture tells of a woman’s pride in her “valley” (referring to her buttocks and the cleft between them) and entices her lover to ejaculate against her backside: "How boastful you are about the valleys! O backsliding daughter who trusts in her treasures, {saying,} ' Who will come against me?' (Jeremiah 49:4) And in the Song of Songs, the lover urges his mate to allow him to enter her from behind: “Draw me after you, let us make haste.” (Song of Solomon, 1:4)“Isn’t anal sex dirty?”
The Bible says, “To the pure, all things are pure.” (Titus 1:15) The Lord created your body, and no part of it is imperfect or unclean. God also created our bodies for pleasure, and anal sex is just one of the many ways, including standard sexual intercourse, that we can enjoy this pleasure and share it with a partner. Although the anus is used for elimination, in reality it is not as dirty as you think, especially after a shower or bath. Elimination is also a natural process of our God-given bodies, so our conception of the anal area as dirty has more to do with our own psychological hang-ups. If the idea of direct contact with this area is still distasteful to you, the male can wear a condom as a barrier“If you’re going to have anal sex, why not just have regular sex?”
This is a good question: If you’re going to have sexual contact before marriage, why not just go the whole nine yards and have regular sex? There are many good reasons for having anal sex instead. The first reason is practical: having conventional vaginal intercourse can lead to unwanted pregnancies. While it’s true that the Lord bade us to “be fruitful and multiply,” (Gen 1:22) the Bible also counsels that “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” (Ecl. 3:1) Pregnancy outside of wedlock can have dire and life-altering consequences for all those involved. Having anal sex allows you to greatly reduce this risk. Second, for a young woman who has never engaged in sexual intercourse, having anal sex allows her to preserve her virginity (i.e., maintain an intact hymen) until marriage. There is no greater gift that a bride can give than to offer her pure, unsullied maidenhead to her husband on their wedding night. Finally, anal sex allows both partners to save the most intimate and powerful sexual act, that of face-to-face vaginal intercourse, for their mates in marriage. This type of sexual relationship represents the most powerful union between a man and a woman, and so it rightfully should be reserved for one’s life partner. Fortunately, you can engage in anal sex prior to marriage and still be able to share the deeper, more meaningful act of consecrated love through vaginal intercourse with your wedded spouse.

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AP scandal only part of the web SPUTJAMAug 9, 05 12:58pm



The current AP controversy is one of many which has its roots during the tenure of Dr Mahathir Mohamad. For him to raise this issue so adamantly remains a mystery. There are many more issues which I hope would be raised. They include the below.
Why were profitable public bus firms in Kuala Lumpur forced to merge into two mega unprofitable ones offering dismal service at a higher cost?
Why was is that when Tenaga Nasional Berhad objected to power purchase agreements with certain Independent Power Producers (IPPs), the government moved in and signed the contracts on behalf of Tenaga?
Despite Mahathir’s objection to ethnic discrimination in Bosnia, why he did not bother to stop similar happenings in Malaysian government departments and government-owned institutions?
Why did the government of the day force the country’s banks to merge, a move totally against the spirit of free enterprise? (Hint: Either the government was wrongly advised or somebody made a huge amount of money from this).
Why did Proton pay a few hundred million ringgit to buy a minority stake in a failed Italian motorcycle company (Augusta)? Shouldn’t Tengku Mahaleel Ariff be questioned on this?
Why is higher education, which should be the right of every qualified Malaysian, still being denied many students?
Why is it that many privatised projects have a compensation clause that guarantee immense profit even if the project fails? (RM4 billion if the government were to terminate the contract for the navy patrol craft, another RM400million to the company that delivers and maintain government vehicles and many more).
With all this in mind, is it any wonder why Umno Youth is keen on prolonging the NEP? It’s a money spinner and they know it.

Tomorrow the 'Iron Lady' is going to explain on AP. Here we wait the outcome of her explanation on this issue in the Cabinet Meeting. So many questions to ask yet the answers come back to cronies and those you know kind of business dealings.

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Yes...damn haze is back! It comes on the yearly routine. We have seen it. We have smelt it. What can one do? Drink alot of water. Stay indoors. Do less activities in the open. What dialogues have been done? Like always smile and coffee time. Get a record attendance that something has been done. The Indonesian minister apologised for the haze...nothing else is done! Next year and many years follow we will hear the same record spinning again. Haze, haze, haze!

Ipoh landscape director was charged with corruption. He didnt plead guilty to the charge and as a result he is still working in the department. Going by the government rules he should be suspended until a disciplinary board convenes to hear the case in the department. No...he is put on full pay and the mayor was reported that he wanted to save money! What a way to tell the rate payers in Ipoh! Normally, as in any private company, the officer will be suspended with a show cause letter to explain his conduct of corruption. Likewise the general orders of the city council should be meted out to this senior officer. In Bolih land everything can do!

Likewise in matriculation and STPM are equivalent although the former is only for one year schooling and the examination papers are marked internally. STPM is two years schooling and the examinations are marked externally...Now we have many Malays looked so very efficient in their studies that the non-Malays seemed to ditch behind....It should be on a level playing ground so that there is no division of class treatment in the country. In Bolih land everything can

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Loan agreements: Banks merciless SM Mohamed IdrisAug 5, 05 1:51pm


Is not a bank no better than the ‘Ah-long’ when it increases the monthly loan repayments from the original instalment of RM7, 000 to RM10, 000 in less than three years? When the borrower protested he was told that the loan agreement allows the bank to do so. Banks have been making consumers sign unfair contracts and getting away with it. It is time that Bank Negara Malaysia (BNM) put a stop to this In the above case the bank (Public Bank Bhd) pointed out that under the agreement the loan is ‘subject to yearly review for increase in repayment amount’. In September 2000, the borrower had signed up for a fixed loan whereby the monthly instalment was agreed at RM7,000. In October 2002, his monthly instalment was revised to RM8,000. In April 2003 it was again increased to RM10, 000. However, the borrower continued paying RM7,000 every month because he could not afford the new instalments. He was shocked that the instalments were increased because he had been servicing his loan faithfully. The excuse the bank gave for increasing his instalment was that the borrower was old and if the monthly instalment was increased, the loan could be settled earlier. (Of course, if the borrower could not meet the increased payments, the properties pledged to the bank could be auctioned off and the loan would also be settled earlier as the bank intended). In another case a borrower took a loan from a finance company (AM Finance Bhd) whereby the interest charged was zero percentage points above the base lending rate (BLR). When the operations of the finance company was consolidated with a commercial bank (AM Bank Bhd) in the same group, she assumed that she would get to enjoy lower interest since the BLR of the bank was 0.9 percentage points lower than that of the finance company. However the bank informed her that the interest margin on her loan was now increased from zero to 0.9 percentage points. As a result, she ends up paying the same interest on her loan. Many consumers have been mislead into thinking that the interest rate or the margin above the BLR at which interest is charged is fixed. The clause which gives the bank the absolute discretion to change the interest rate or the monthly repayment should not be allowed in any loan agreement. Where it appears in any agreement, the clause should not be enforceable. To add salt to the wound, the borrower paid for the fees of the lawyer firm which drew up the agreement. The borrower is forced to pay the legal fees but is not allowed to choose his own lawyer (the firm has to be from the bank’s panel). He has no choice but to sign the loan contract skewed in favour of the bank. The problem of unfair contracts is much older than that of excessive service fees and charges and BNM has not taken steps to right the imbalance. BNM should heed consumers call for the introduction of fair loan agreements and let the banks pay their own legal fees.
The writer is president of the Consumers Association of Penang.

Even if one writes to the central bank, it is always silent you received. The central bank is not proactive to protect the general public. It is the banks that the central bank is protecting. Without these banks around there will not be a central bank. Right? Even with computerization in the banking industry, you still have to go back to the original branch to cancel your account be it in savings account or current account or fixed deposit certificates eg MBB So you can imagine even if you write to complain it is always hiding in the basket.. The central bank shall not reply and you can hear many customers whispering along the corridors.....the banks want your money but they won't provide the best services. In fact every service to the public is equated with money. So you can imagine the $billion it makes last year by these banks under service fees and other charges. Go figure!

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This is from Utusan Konsumer July - August 2005 issue which reported that 'Recently WHo warned that Malaysia is on the verge of an HIV/AIDS epidemic. It came so swift and sudden and begs the question as t ohow did it happen and why was it allowed to happen....' It continues ' The ugly truth is that HIV/AIDS and its impact will continue to be felt for years to come and the situation will get worst before it gets better (it if does). Given this backdrop the challenges are indeed formidable and require a massive and comprehensive national response..' It further added 'Given the state of nation's public health care and delivery system, which is being progressively privatised and systematically dismantled, with little transparency and public debate, the question is whether our public health care system is equiped to meet the challenges that the HIV/AIDS crisis demands..'

The current young adults should take cognizance of the wild spread of the sexual diseases rampant in the society practising without safe sex. Don't always say it won't happen to you...it is for your own good to prepare and acknowledge the spread of the sexual diseases especially HIVs amongst the young people and sexually active adults who indulge in multiple partners. Here is the statistics of the current HIV/AIDS in 2004 in consumer association's publication.

Total HIV Infections 64,439
Total AIDs cases 9,442
AIDS Deaths 7,195

Sex education will play a vital role to educate the present generation and multiple sex partners
on the danger prevalent on these active group of people to practise safe sex at all times. Be it with a singular partner or many, sex is not a play thing or a commodity. It is something personal for a person yet in the years long past it has become a marketing commodity.

Practise safe sex to sleep easy in the night.

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NEP never stopped, no need to re-introduce Jeremy Swanlake Aug 3, 05 3:19pm



Much has been said about the so-called re-introduction of the NEP. But I was under the impression all this while that the NEP was still in force. When was it stopped for it to be re-introduced? For instance: - the Bumiputera allocation for IPOs (the pink forms) is still on-going. - Private colleges and schools must have 30 percent bumi represention among the operators. The ministry of higher education will not renew their license if this 30 percent bumi stake is not intact. - The seven percent discount for bumi home buyer is still on. Housing developers also have to allocate 30 percent of their units for bumis. If there are no bumi takers, you get to release these units to others after greasing the many hands of the powers-that-be. - Only bumis can be vice-chancellors, deans and heads of department in public universities. The non bumis are not capable and please don't mention about them any more. - Heads of government departments, except some window dressing appointments, must only be bumis. Again , the non bumis are not capable. - Certain schools are only for Bumi-Malay with full scholarship. Non bumis are not capable to qualify to enter these prestigious schools.
- Different qualifying exams are conducted to help the bumis enter institutions of higher learning. Bumis sit for different qualifying exams, which the non-bumis are incapable of doing. - Apply for any contractor’s license. Try it. But try it only if you have 30 percent or more of bumi participation in your company. The list will go on and on. I am just too tired and lethargic to mention them all. The more I do, it makes me less patriotic, which the non-bumis are capable of
now.

The Malay political party shouldnt ask for the continuance of the NEP. It was terminated in 1990. After 20 years of its existence, the Malay race couldnt achieve it. What with the full backing of the government. What's more do these people want? The other races too are in poor economic shape yet there is no benefit for these group of people in the country. When the NEPwas terminated in 1990, it was changed to National Development Policy (NDP) and now currently a week ago it is called New National Policy(NNP) where the PM said it is shared equally for all races in the country. Will it really happen when all the heads of department are Malays? Will the benefits go through the hardcore poor and poor villages? I have my doubts with the implementations of the current policy. So what happen if nothing is achieved in 2020?
My guess there will be another name change but benefit the elite race only..Just let it plays on the level playing field....no special benefits to any particular race...we should work and prosper together for the country not for the race!

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The constitution guarantees religious freedom. Every one has a right to practice one's own religion. So we have Christians of many sects, we have many Buddhists of many sects, we have many Hindus faith of many varieties and many others of many combinations flourishing in the world market But if you are a Muslim, you can't have other faiths in your life. The syariah laws and religious council do not permit it to happen. The other religious faiths should be grateful to
indulge in other religions whereby they can interchange it to pursue one that it is best, in their view, for their lives. Yet there is no leeway for the Muslim of the religious faith Islam...which is the way of peace. Sometimes I think the other races should be religiously grateful that no one can disturb their practices of their own religions something which the Muslim can't get it. When we thought about religious freedom it is about a religion one felt comfortable with and pursue it without pressures or cohesion.

So the constitution guarantees it but it is not for the religion Islam - once you are in you are always in; there is no leeway to escape the syariah laws. One will be sent to the religious council for grooming on the faith.

Who was Jesus? Son of Mary. He was a prophet/messenger of Allah/God. He was sent to bring the good news of The Lord. Yet amongst the followers they thought of him as God! There is only one God. He is the only one whom Jesus preached. He died as foretold in the prophecy to bring mankind to the realm of heaven. It is His Lord's religion he brought to his followers that had changed through the years by the people themselves forsaking The Lord's religion. In this context Lucifer prevailed to change the peoples' view of The Lord religion. Jesus will come to correct these imperfections of mankind. Because he hasnt finished his Lord's work entrusted to him so he will come to make what is right. May peace be upon him.

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If you don't know what a condom is then you are from some other planet but the plain fact is - if you are not in a monogamous (exclusive) relationship where you and your partner have both been tested then a condom is a responsibility you owe yourself. In addition to HIV, there are more than fifty different types of diseases that can be passed through sexual activity and the only way to lessen your risk is to use a condom. If your partner is not willing to use a condom it means they don't care about themselves or you and it's time to find a different partner. Remember a condom can Save Your Life! So you don't have to like them but you HAVE to use them so you might as well learn about them and then check out "Getting Creative with Condoms"! Now with that little lecture out of the way there are lots of things to know about condoms and which kind of condom you use is going to depend on what kind of sexual activity you are engaging in, penis size and last but not least - personal preference. Most people don't realize that condoms are classified as medical devices. Their production and marketing are regulated by the Food & Drug Administration. Every single condom is tested before it is sold. Condoms used to be made of natural skin (including lambskin) or of rubber. That's why they were called "rubbers". Most condoms today are latex or polyurethane. Lambskin condoms can prevent pregnancy, however, they have tiny holes (pores) that are large enough for HIV to get through. Lambskin condoms do not prevent the spread of HIV. Latex is the most common material for condoms. Viruses can not penetrate throught the latex but latex has two drawbacks: oils make it fall apart, and some people are allergic to latex. There generally are three sizes available and size differences are subtle. Non - Lubricated - Old style that have been around forever - these are best used for oral sex. Plain - Lubed - These are standard-shaped lubricated condoms. Thin & Sensitive - These are designed for people who feel that the standard condoms do no provide enough feeling. Spermicidal - These are designed to add another level of protection against pregnancy. Nonoxynol-9 is a chemical that kills sperm (a spermicide). It can help prevent pregnancy when it is used in the vagina along with condoms or other birth control methods. Nonoxynol-9 should not be used in the mouth or rectum. Because nonoxynol-9 kills HIV in the test tube, it was considered as a way to prevent HIV infection during sex. Unfortunately, many people are allergic to it. Their sex organs (penis, vagina, and rectum) can get irritated and develop small sores that actually make it easier for HIV infection to spread. Nonoxynol-9 is not recommended as a way to prevent HIV infection. Extra Strength - These are the heavy duty industrial variety. Large - As the name implies these are for the well endowed. Extra Roomy - Designed to fit a bit looser that some people find increases the sensation and with a reservoir tip. Flavored - Perfect for oral sex otherwise, the flavors would go to waste. Textured - These are the fun ones designed to add some additional stimulation. Polyurethane - Designed for people who are allergic to latex. A latex allergic reaction can be fatal. The symptoms can show up as a simple red rash or something more severe. If you have ever had a reaction to wearing a band-aid then your probably have a latex allergy and should consider using only polyurethane condoms. Female Condoms - These are designed to be inserted in the vagina before sex. The sheath contains a flexible ring on each end. One ring is inserted into the vagina and helps hold it in place. The outer ring stays outside the body. This can help prevent the female condom from getting pushed into the vagina. Each item comes with extra water-based lubricant and instructions. Dental Dams - Specially designed as a barrier for use while performing cunnilingus (oral/vaginal sex) and rimming (oral/anal sex) or kissing (someone who has been rimming). When properly used they may help reduce the risk of catching or spreading many sexually transmitted diseases. However, they cannot entirely eliminate the risk.

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Fun Facts
Average Depth of a Vagina: between 3 to 6 inches.
Largest Vagina: the female blue whale with a normal length of 6 to 8 feet.
Largest Human Vagina: belonged to a woman who was 7'8" tall.
Smallest Vagina: 2 or 3 centimeters - surgery is required for correction.
Longest Clitoris: recorded at 4½ inches long and 1½ inches diameter.
Longest Labia Minora: some African tribes enlarge their labia to 7 inches in length.
Largest Buttocks: Hottentot tribe have buttocks that each can be two or three feet.
Largest Breasts: 44-pounds breasts measuring 33 inches in circumference.
Most Breasts: In 1886 a french woman was recorded with ten individual breasts.
Most Orgasms: 134 in one hour for a woman - 16 for a man.
Longest Recorded Orgasm: 43-seconds with 25 consecutive contractions.
Longest Recorded Pubic Hair: 28" (71.12 cm) long.
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What Do Doctors Know!
According The Solitary Vice, a book for doctors that came out in the 1890s, women who masturbate tend to eat a lot of foods containing mustard and vinegar.
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Bad Middle Ages!
Women were discouraged from having orgasms during the Middle Ages because it was thought that orgasms made women less capable of getting pregnant.
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Inventors Corner!
The modern IUD invented was invented in 1909.
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What About The Cucumber?
.According to the Hite Report, candles are the artificial device used more frequently by women when masturbating.
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Depends On Who You Ask?
According to Kinsey Report (1953), 15 percent of the female population was capable of multiple orgasms.
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It's A Fact!
The vagina and the eye are self-cleaning organs.
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More Reasons To Own A Vibrator!
Having an orgasm relieves menstrual cramps because the vigorous
muscle action moves blood and other fluids away from congested organs.
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Blame It On Ben!
"Scrump" is archaic slang for "the sexual act." Ben Franklin referred to prostitutes as "scrumpets."
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G-e-e-e-!
The G-spot is named for Dr. Ernest Grafenberg.
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Who Knew?
The modern psychiatric definition of nymphomaniac is a woman who cannot experience sexual satisfaction regardless of the number of orgasms or partners she has.
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What's In A Name?
According to one source, there are about 1,000 recognized slang words for "vagina."
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8 out of 10 Can't Be Wrong!
In a recent survey of women who use vibrators for sexual relief, 8 out 10
stated they do not insert the vibrator inside them, they use it on the outside
of the clitoris to achieve orgasm.
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Not Tonight!
A female orgasm is a powerful painkiller (because of the release of endorphins), so headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex.
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Oh! Cleo!
It is ancient legend that Cleopatra of the Nile had 2 orgasms a day and manufactured her diaphragm our of cow dung.

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Penis Facts
Average length of penis when not erect: 3.5 inches
Average length when erect: 5.2 - 6.4 inches
The Longest: 13 inches
The Smallest: 5/8 of an inch
Largest penis in the animal kingdom: 11 feet (blue whale)
Actual amount of semen per ejaculation: 1-2 teaspoons
Average number of times a man will ejaculate in his lifetime: 7,200
Average # of times he will ejaculate from masturbation: 2,000
Average total amount of lifetime ejaculate: 14 gallons
Average speed of ejaculation: 28 miles per hour
Average # of calories in a teaspoon of semen: 7
Most arousing time of day/season for a man: early morning/fall
Best ways to improve sexual function: quit smoking, start exercising, lose weight
Percent of men who say they masturbate: 60%
Percent of men who say they masturbate at least once a day: 54%
Percent of men who say they feel guilty masturbating that often: 41%
Amount of time needed for a man to regain erection: from 2 min to 2 weeks
Average # of erections per day for a man: 11
Average # of erections during the night: 9
Sperm life: 2 1/2 months (from development to ejaculation)
Thickness of the average condom: .07 mm
Thickness of super-thin condoms: .05 mm
Speed at which erotic sensations travel from skin to brain 156 miles per hour
There are approximately 5 calories in a teaspoon of semen.
All penises bend slightly to the left or right — there is no perfectly straight penis.
Odors that increase blood flow to the penis: lavender, licorice, chocolate, doughnuts and pumpkin pie!
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Is Penis Size Important?
Yes and No - it is only as important as you think it is. Most women surveyed say men are too hung up on penis size. As far as sexual stimulation penis width is more important than the length.
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How Do I Measure My Penis?
.After obtaining an erection angle your penis down until it is parallel to the floor. Set your ruler against your pubic bone just above the base of the penis, and measure to the tip.
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Can Penis Size Be Increased?
Penis pumps can temporarily increase the size of a penis - read more here. For permanent increase it requires a surgical procedure. Be warned surgery carries with it the risk of infection. This book can help provide information about increasing penis size.
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The Penis Party . . .
Every year on March 15 Japan throws a giant festival to celebrate the penis and fertility. A 900-pound wooden phallus is paraded around the streets of the town Komaki, and women carry massive dildos in their arms. Thousands of people come to pay homage to the penis and take part in the festivities.
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Do You Know Where Your Foreskin Is?
In America hundreds of thousands of circumcised foreskins have been sold to bio-research laboratories.
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A Weighty Issue!
The Caramoja tribe of northern Uganda tie a weight on the end of their penises to elongate them - sometimes to such a degree that the men literally have to knot them up - while the Mambas of New Hebrides wrap theirs in yards and yards of cloth, making them look up to 17 inches long.
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Double Your Pleasure!
In 1609, a doctor named Wecker found a corpse in Bologna with two penises. Since then, there have been eighty documented cases of
men similarly endowed.
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Sue the Bastards!
A honeymooning couple are suing Holiday Inn for ten thousand dollars, claiming their sex life is now dysfunctional because an employee mistakenly walked in on them on their wedding night.
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The Royal Way!
England's King Edward VII, a man of considerable heft, had a special table built so that he could comfortably engage in sexual intercourse.
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The Ultimate Hello!
When men of the Walibri tribe of central Australia greet each other, they shake penises instead of hands.
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Not The Way To Go!
At least 500 Americans die each year from asphyxia in an attempt to lessen oxygen flow to the brain in order to induce a more powerful orgasm.
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A Fashion Statement!
In fourteenth-century Europe, high-ranking noblemen were permitted to display their genitals below a short tunic, while those not impressively endowed could, if they chose, wear a leather falsie called a braquette.
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Time On Your Side?
Given today's average frequency of sexual intercourse, it would take the typical American couple more than four years to try every one of the 529 positions described in the Kama Sutra. More Kama Sutra information here.

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Now the minister is passing the buck to the PM on the AP issue. She didnt explain properly while she got the chance. Now when the crevices have broken into the brick wall, she is trying to hide behind the PM. Ask PM. Ask PM. Nay....she should explain herself in detail and not hide behind the system. Previously it shouldnt be published! Why change the tune? Because of TDM? Now the full list(?) had been published yet many questions need to ask. Procedures to ditch out AP permits. What steps require to apply for the AP permits? Why only to a few cronies/companies? What happen to the other 50% Malays? It is free and I am sure they want it. Afterall the market value is between $20,000 to $40,000 each AP. I am rich.....if only I could

Taxes warming our seats. Electricity, water and petrol prices will hike up soon. By 1/1/2007 the GST will hang loose on our necks....I wonder how the kopitiam owners/hawkers going to implement this tax on the customers. Easy way don't issue bill! No bill no tax both ways. Let the government ICQ for it. Further when Telekom has done its rationalization programmes, chopped off certain heads of companies and put his own like minded people, trimmed the employees load, etc....then hike the rate....the fastest way to make money

The major telcos have done it through sms/mms. Every one pays. In fact many people don't know the service charges on their bills....all because of the small very tiny print in its brochures like Maxis and Astro owned by Ananda Krishnan....Every one is waiting for MiTV which is still a long way to the horizon.....maybe going to sleep in the jungle....

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AP issue will not die low as yet. Fact is every one wanted to know how it is done. Because money can be made. What happen to other disadvantaged Malays? They are still poor after all these years under NEP (till 1990 when it was replaced by another policy) The National Economic Policy is drafted to benefit all the citizens of the country but during the implementation stage it is given to one particular race to benefit from it. On the believe to achieve a target of 30%. Why?
Because they can't stand on their own two feet! Now the statistic told a different story. They can't achieve the desired target and so the present government will continue......this is robbing the other citizens of the country. Other races too are not rich and cant enjoy the fruits of the country's wealth. No Sir!!! There are poor people who suffer the same as the Malays...but they are not offering anything extra...

The NEP is a divide and rule tactic serving the rights of the ruling elite. These people take a leaf from the British rule then. Yet these elite people ridiculed and condemned the British Government for her policy of divide and rule regime. What I see the present policies too take up the lead of the former British Government system..

When all these lopsided policies will end? In 2020?

On another matter a former driver killed himself in his brother's car. He was out of job for a month so he couldnt take it he committed suicide. He was depressed but he never thought about his wife and his children. What a selfish man he was! So he left misery for his wife and children to carry on their lives without him. Depression without job doesnt mean life is at end. I know it is hard to live day to day. This is the test of one's will to face challenges in the daily life. Living nobody can say it is easy. It takes hard work and a total desire to live - to feel the flow and the happiness of living. I guess not every one think this way. Many try to go the easy way out of any misery.

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Proton CEO is out!! The Kelantan Prince had his days in Proton. Though he did quite a good job base on profits earned to the company, he didnt know how to shut up his mouth. When one is an employee to the company, one has to know the line drawn between the relationship of employer and employee. In the end the employer (Proton Board) wins the game. One can stay on the job if one is politically connected to the PM who is the one who playing behind every move on companies hold by the Federal Government. And who runs the Federal Government and make decisions? On one hand the PM is talking about Towering Malay issue, the Proton Board is thinking of hiring a foreigner to run Proton! What an irony! There is no Malay to run Proton. Maybe because of one of these issues the NEP is back! As I said earlier it is the cement of softness which will be the downfall of the Malay. It is better that these people learn to stand up and study how to make business which will make them strong and the money will come. They have to start now not tomorrow not till 2020!!

Now something about the bombings in London. The British Pakistanis said that the British Government didnt help them. They are ignored by the government although they are the citizen of Britain. Majority are Muslims living in Britain. So whatever happens then it could be the fault of the British Government. The young Muslims angered by the isolation of the British Government policies lured themselves to the extreme views propagated by the terrorist groups -bomb the place to get recognition-otherwise nobody will wake up from sleep. The British Paki wants help from the British Government. If not, the young ultra Muslims will campaign to bomb Britain. This also reminds me of the Malays who want government help through their lives. Without it they feel they are at a disadvantaged..The common factor - Muslim. I feel shameful that these people never want to fight to build their own nests for the future. Every one of us has the skill and intelligent to do something good for oneself and the country but not on the handouts from the government.

Dont play the disadvantage card all the times; it may fall flat on your life!

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Well....the goodies for the Malays stay. The NEP or whatever names the ruling elite wanted to say will be the shackle for their own race. It is already written in the stars that too many of the good things will fail the race itself. So if they dont want to hear the good advice of the other races it is their own downfall to oblivion. Sure many won't agree to my view. They feel I am jealous or what but I dont care of any race. I want my country to be peaceful and prosperous and taste the food of our labour in the respectful community where every one speaks as one race one country - nothing about racial connotations and fridge benefits...The NEP was introduced 34 years ago in 1970 yet the Malays claimed they only achieved 19% of the economic cake. Tell me whose fault is that? Even with the support of the government(read Malay ruling elite) the Malays can't get it right so they still want the handout all the times. This is testing the patience of the other races(since they are not talking of country but on race) And the government is lacking of confident that the NEP should not be questioned by the other races!!!! When will it end? Until the country goes up in smoke perhaps?

Eygpt was bombed! A Muslim country yet she is targetted by the terrorists. Will it happen to my country? I shudder to think about it. The way the country's elite doing business it just may happen. The ripening fruit has opened. So it is much easy to select targets to hit it. The top Malay terrorists are still on the run in Indonesia.

World War 3? It may happen in 2012. It is the date calculated by the Mayans. Our world then will get the onslaught of the fire from the Lord....

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'I'll do it!' says the PM of the country. This is his battle cry during the last election and now he repeated in his annual message to his party delegates. As always he talks about his race and how to improve and towering it over the other races. Political talk on race. He should talk on the value of the country and the people as one. He should understand thoroughly that race base party for the 21st century shouldnt be the forefront to move forward in the global fronters. So amongst the many things he wanted to do for his own race are :-

Fight corruption
Change the mindset
Promote Islam Hadhari
Towering Malays
Reform economy
Improve quality of life

All the years through the previous PM these are suppose to happen to them. Through the various race base policies and encouragement yet every new PM says his people must be assisted all the times. Thus what happen to the other races? For the last 47 years of the country I believe it is enough to give the handout to his race. The policies shouldnt be extended or framed to assist them anymore. It has to stop!

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The ruling elite wants the NEP to stay. I can't blame them to think otherwise. When the wine is sooooooooo old and taste fantastically good no one will try to change it. When they can get handouts with minimum ploughing there is nothing to stop them. Only through their own hands they will fall. Other races only see and read about them. So are the racial political parties in the National Front. The weaknesses will make them fall in the world of global/IT knowledge. Many recognize this is the fact yet the pulling of easy money to enjoy life have made them soft and drunk in their own assisted successes. In the 21st century the government should know how to handle the different races in the country. It can't service one particular race and leave the rest to their own devices. The policies must be fair and worked equally share. They have to think out of their own masks and think of the country not on race. I fear the country will bomb itself when too many time bombs sitting in our backyards.....The NEP should have abolished long ago yet it is still around to enrich the ruling elite and its cronies. Shame, shame, shame.

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Why the 'Iron lady' cry? She couldnt see the truth of what she did. Looked at the list itself...the majority of the AP holders are close to her. I think she knows about it. At that time, she could hide it. She doesnt have to publish in the press to announce who is who illgetting the AP permit. Imagine the amount earned just by selling the AP permit. As one opposition member put it around $1.0 billion where to the government has to forgo it to help the bumiputras but only in the hands of a few. So the NEP is only meant for the ruling elite cronies to become millionaires. The government has given all the assistance to these selected people(bumi) to prosper at the expense of the people.

Called them Towering Malays......NEP 2?? Maybe it may happen since the NEP of the 70s is old...so new idea to bridge it again. The government shouldnt help these people anymore. It is time to open it to all races in the country. Arent we to entitle to the riches of the country?

Now we hear a nicer word 'glocal' for the Malays. Before NEP 2 can take off, come the super hero to hit the roof. Fantastic 4 drama....No wonder the non-Malays always lose out in monetary and business benefits...and in tertiary education too. How long before the fire burn the country?

The cake of the country must be distributed fairly and equally. It cannot be biased towards one race. It spells the corrupted root in our system. The country is still a safe place to live and earn a living because the emotional bank is very high so whatever difficulties arise it could be solved one way or another....

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At last the AP controversy in the open. Yet where did it come out late? One time it wasnt to be disclosed and giving quite many reasons too. Why did the PM turn around this time? Too many fires spreading in the city. It is better he felt to let it be known than people started to probe and argue about it. The AP permit is suppose to help the Malays to prosper but it is given to those cronies with the ruling elite. Surprising non-Malays too got into the fray on AP permits. I think somewhere the policy shifted to suit for the supporters..Now it is in the open....what next?

People never want to leave the country because of the peace and harmony; good food and entertainment and religious freedom though there are many ills befallen in the country. It is the policy of spoon feeding the Malays until such time they just can't get away with it. They demand for it all the times. I think there must be a time frame to help a race. By right we shouldnt even talk and write of one race. It should be for the whole country - the multi-racial citizen. I know some do leave because they have their own political agendas I will stay in my own country which I consider it is the best in the world

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My country is not an Islamic state and it never would be. The Federal Constitution never expertly written that the country is an Islamic state; it is only the religion officially recognised by the written law with freedom to practise other religious faiths in the country.

It is the Malay politician who made it seemed it is so. Even the former PM said the country is an Islamic state. He wanted to garder votes and support from the majority race in the country. The founding fathers of the nation didnt want an Islamic State. They recognised that the country is multi-racial, multi-religious, multi-cultural and multi so many that to do so may create another racial tension worst than the communist insurgents then. So they made it official the religion of Islam with other faiths sharing equal freedom of practice in the country. This is the foundation for peace and co-existence in the country. Now the ruling elite is trying to enforce it against the Federal Law. It is written so plainly that every citizen recognises it. The other Muslim countries recognise the country is an Islamic State because Islam is the official religion of the country but it doesnt say it is an Islamic State under the Federal Constitution.

The MP for Jerai has crossed the line. Why dont the government charge him under seditious law? I doubt the ruling elite will charge its member(s) Likewise if he can't take the heat, he should relocate to another country where his ideas are welcome. In Parliament is to discuss what to do for the country. As the peoples' representative he should be aware of his comments. He didnt get elected through the Malays votes but the votes of the multi-races in the country.

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A Glorious Story
by Glenn T. Stanton

Christians have a far more beautiful story to tell about the glorious nature of human sexuality than any other story occupying the cultural stage now or ever. None of the rivals are even close. The Christian story of sexuality is true to the fullness in which God made us as humans and true to the nature of what is ultimately behind everything in the universe: God, who is love and who dwells in loving intimacy. We shouldn’t be shy about telling it with the power and beauty of our lives.
We tell it to the world when we make deliberate decisions to protect our sexual health and wholeness from the ravaging wolves of premarital and extramarital sex.
We tell it to our spouses when we give our total selves exclusively to them, desiring to give and serve rather than to take. We tell it when we affirm, honor, and protect their femininity or masculinity, whether we’re alone or in front of others.
We tell it to our spouses and children when we honor our spouses with our fidelity. This isn’t just physical, but also mental and emotional. Husband, do your wife and children see you looking at other women or treating other women more kindly than you do your own wife? Wife, do you use sex as a bargaining chip with your husband, even playfully: “If you don’t play golf this Saturday, maybe we can see what happens after the kids go to bed?” Married couples should give of themselves freely and exclusively, without demanding from one another.
We tell the Christian story when we treat our spouses as reflections of God upon the earth, not as objects for our own pleasure or usefulness.
As your friends and children observe your life, what do they learn about sexuality? Do they get a distinctly Christian picture of sexuality? Do they see that you seek to please God and reflect His nature by honoring and serving your spouse? How we quietly care for and live out our sexual lives in front of others is a powerful lesson to them about how we view God, others, and ourselves. Remember, there’s much more to our sexual lives than the activity that takes place behind closed doors.
Loving Christ in your sex life means being pure. It means being chaste. Purity is so much more than what you don’t do. It’s who you are. Both purity and chastity are positive virtues and not merely an absence of wrong behavior. Pope John Paul II describes chastity very nicely in one of his pastoral letters:
The chaste person is not self-centered, not involved in selfish relationships with other people. Chastity makes the personality harmonious. It matures it and fills it with inner peace. This purity of mind and body helps develop true self-respect and at the same time makes one capable of respecting others, because it makes one see in them persons to reverence, insofar as they are created in the image of God and through grace are children of God, re-created by Christ who “called you out of darkness into His marvelous light” (1 Peter 2:9).1
To love God in our sex lives means to be pure in the fullness of the person God created us to be—physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. To do so is to live in wholeness. Excerpted from My Crazy Imperfect Christian Family by Glenn T. Stanton. Copyright © 2004. Used by permission of NavPress. www.navpress.com. All rights reserved.

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God I make this world for my people to live in peace and harmony

Satan I will corrupt them. I make them believe heaven is with me

God My dear fellow I make you as Lucifer as the one to administer my domain. Yet you rebel over my authority over you

Satan You were my master once. Now I am on my own to fend on what you taught me. I rebel because you had lost confidence in me by creating the humans to take over my place

God It is called recreating my children. You have your job as spelled out in your contract. Now I divided it to share equally amongst my children but you never agree

Satan How could I my Lord? You put me in service to the humans even I have the power, thanks to you, that I could make them kneel to me. You give me the magical power which the humans have none to shout about. Unless these humans follow your rules and obey. This is where I will destroy them

God You dont understand Lucifer. This is the job where you are put into better use. I have no intention to curb your powers. You can assure yourself. You are created by my will and learn the skills I taught you. You live as I allow you to until the appointed time. I have confidence with my children as I breathe lives into them. You can do whatever with the humans and I won't stop you in anyway in whatever forms you want to make. When the time comes for me to say 'I am the Lord and I create this universe and everything and living are mine to control and destroy at will'

Satan So you agreed that I too have the powers you bestowed on me. Yes...I will use it to the fullest of my authority to turn the humans like me.....the rebellious children of doom!

God You never listen! My sole religion will burn you through. I have no tear for you. Until the time comes for me to take you away, now you can roam around the world as you please but remember Gabriel will watch you every step you take

Satan So be it! I destroy the humans and take as many as with me to the dark side and we see when the time comes to settle our score.

God Now you go out from my sight!

Satan Looked at his master. He bows once to his Lord and disappear with the wind

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Flyers were distributed for the missing pet dog around Kota Kemuning. Yet there was no response on the missing dog. The thief had caught him and now he is somewhere else. Maybe another place another home. Just has to put it in history 'on this day the small pet dog disappeared'...................

The flyover collapsed! The link road to Meru. So it will delay for a few months for the report to come out on why it failed....Another sub-standard work and materials used????? Lack of supervision. Currently I heard on television passing buck on the collapse of the flyover. One of the rules of management is taking responsibility even a manager delegates it to his officer or sub-contract out to a third party. Accountability doesnt pass. The manager must be held responsible for any failure to the project or work. It boils down to the proper supervision of the project. I wait to see what report it will publish on the flyover collapse.

Young adults are willing to be corrupted to pursue their own agendas. There will be more cases in the coming age of these people. Many bankrupts, many social problems -pregnancies, diseases, AIDS/HIVs, no respect to elders or obeying the laws, the inability to pursue on their own jobs or personal growth, and many more on their journey

other crazy thought 9

The parables of the two sons

It is the deepest meaning

Not only on love your neighbors

It goes beyond

The stage of greater things

The countries earned its blessings

The children of the Lord of Host

The 12 tribes so they go

To the gates that they are told

Nourishing, praying, teaching

The true religion of the Lord

The bounties of the children

On stages on the appointed times

So the work of the Lord

It comes with the glorified fire

One gone to Britain

Conquered the world

Built colonies for the Empire

The wealth of nations

So this nation inherited

Then the decline

The lost of power

The lost of control

Preaching the wrong roads

Forget the true religion of the Lord

One God one religion

Yet there is still a semblance of control

Under the Commonwealth of Nations

The grouping is strong

As the Lord of Host wants it to be

For the prophecy to arrive

As written in the holy texts

To put religion of His Lordship

On the right of the peoples’ minds

So this son felt the jealousy

When the wayward son got his inheritance

The slaves of the British Empire

Roared into power and wealth

Become the Supreme Ruler

The world ever seen

When the British Empire decline in stages

Through the centuries until the 2^nd World War

The Americans as the other son of the lineage

Blossomed into the world stage

With the fire power none can dispute

The world felt the tremor

For a country late in the equation

Yet the Americans came into view

As the glorious brother so he was told

Many stories of years ago

O she rules the world

The oceans, the seas and land

The eyes of fire

The tongue of lashing

The people of other nations

Bowed and respected her glory

Yet the unthinkable happened

The slow progress of destruction comes

Into her heart it melts

The conduit of unbelievable sins

It lays bare the destruction for the world to see

The Americans lose the battle field

The fire ignites the glow

The thunderstorm keep brewing in the horizon

The tornadoes and hurricanes lashing her coasts

The sinful populace rings in the sky

The floods and earthquakes will swallow them

As other nations watch with tearful eyes

As the Lord has promised

Wages of sin is death

The parables of the sons

They forgot their inheritance

The laws of their own fathers

The damnation comes

As the night thief takes away

Through the night!

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As I expected the modern Crusades has begun. This is the 3rd Crusade in our times of 5,000 years. The chess players have moved into the heartland of the modern establishment. No one wants to call it a day. This is the skirmish of small fires, wanton distruction of lives and properties. It will continue until the Devil takes the throne in the Vatican City because they dont believe in One God so the structure weakness ripes for the Devil to insulate himself as the next Pope of the Vatican City. It will come. The beginning of the groundwork has been laid. The EU is taking shape only some minor hiccups derailed the project on hold. Currently we see the conflicts of the Christians and the Muslims though they come direct from the same cloth yet they never see eye to eye. Each wants to dominate the other. This is the work of the Devil...and his soldiers have garnered support in the mind of the masses...now numbered into billions...

So London blasts didnt surprise me. It had to happen. The messsages had been given yet the police didnt take enough precaution to protect their own turf. All waiting for some one to call and say 'I have put bombs in the tunnel' Lives shouldnt be that way. Warnings have been given and so it is best be cautious and speed up security checks 24/7 After awhile the deaths gone away. People forget.....'a calm before a storm'

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Rodney the small dog didnt return since yesterday. So I guess I won't be seeing this pet dog again. Lost in his place in Kota Kemuning, Shah Alam. Today they spent one whole scouting the areas looking for him. It is confirmed he has gone for good. The neighbours commented that many small dogs had disappeared in Kota Kemuning. So the dog thieves know about the value of these pet dogs which fetched a high price in other towns. So maybe must get another pet dog in the same dog farm....

So Tun Dr M got cheesed off by his former trade minister on AP permits. So far nothing is disclosed in the press. The government of the current PM doesnt respond to his request. Everything is silent. Transparency is only in political necking amongst themselves just to pull wool over the peoples' eyes. Fishing for votes after which back to square one again until the next election. I wonder why Dr M didnt disclose it when he was the PM? Food for thought really.

Oh...well the corruption still erupts in every facet of the society. Even in the survey of the young they agreed to be corrupted to get what they wanted. Learning from the elders...so who could blame these young adults? Like no more cases in the elite political party on money politics until the next round of party elections...Why dont they put every money into a special fund as political campaign funds to dispense it where there is a need for it? These people can apply through the party chief. In this way it is properly accounted for and for what purpose it required
and it becomes legitimate in a sense the committee in HQ approved it. Of course many party chief will apply it but there must be writing or plan submitted in advance for that purpose it is intended. In this way I think every one will be happy almost.

Corruption is a disease; it will not be forgotten or just disappear. It is the facet of the system enriched it by the political system. Something like prostitution...it is a passion for the men where wives or girlfriends do not agree to confirm to the men's wishes. Hence prosititution plays a part in the mens' lives though they could have wives or mistresses or girlfriends..Money is the gift of many desires attainable through willing to sacrifice honour for greed and power. Think about it.

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Yesterday I went to the new immigration office in the city. There is no directional sign posts to direct the public to the new building. In fact many people were caught unaware of the new building entering from Jelapang toll booth turn right to Chemor where for a short distance on the left is the immigration new building. Today I went there again. Some improvements. There are chairs now in the public area yesterday didnt. The air-conditioning units done in the Home Affairs office. Many Chinese queue up for the passport section; there are less than 10 non Chinese applying for passport..The new immigration office building got a write up in the Chinese press but in the English newspapers....basically I suspected many Chinese educated apply for passport...

Today Rodney the small brown dog disappeared from the house in Kota Kemuning. It was 3 hours now and yet nothing was heard of him. Nothing on the golf course which is near the house and the security guard didnt see him either. Only the construction workers said the dog went down the road yet nobody around the houses saw him. So where did he go? Rodney found his freedom so I guessed he wanted to remain free....but could he survive in the area?

Freedom has a price; nothing will come easy. Fight with reason know the weakness and correct it above all love your neighbours you wont regret it in later years....

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We elected our MPs to do work in Parliament for us not for the party or in coalition parties. The whip shouldnt enforce to curtail the wants of the people through their MPs. It is sad really to witness that the coalition parties block or take action against MPs who never follow a set code of ethics or rules of behaviour in Parliament. Look at it this way....we elect our MPs to say something good or bad in Parliament. This is what the tax payers paid them to do even the PM too must toe in that direction. If they can't do a proper job entrusted to them by the people, next round the people shouldnt elect these MPs again including the PM himself. He knows how to talk but he seems weak in his execution. He draws out many dreams but reality the dreams never turn to concrete results. He takes scrape goat to hide his weaknesses. Just to tell the people 'Look here I have done with I could' But PM money politics is not done by one person alone! Dont pull wool eyes over the people! I for one will not believe it that only one person plays money politics. It has many streams to flow before finally deposit it in the seas....

And I have the Higher Education Minister who said UM has no hanky panky in its administration whereas the Staff Union says it has. Yet he never supports his views with proof or just listen to UM administrator for his comments. The staff union says they have proof of what the administrator allows to happen in UM. So I watch for news on how this is going....

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Torah and Christian texts are obsolete. Too many alterations to suit to the faithfuls of the religions which is according to the Holy Quran. This is the final text from Allah as he had proclaimed through His Messenger Mohammad(pbuh) Yet in the Quran it is said to respect the previous prophets who came before Mohammad. When one reads the Quran one finds the story repeated again to mankind. Why? There is something which every one tries to hide. The ending of the world! It is coming SOON!!!!!

There are one billion Christians who never practise it correctly as proclaimed in the religious texts. They practise multi-Gods in their proclaimation 'The Holy Father, The Son and The Holy spirits!' Allah has no equals in His administration neither He delegates it to any one. He is the one who decides the faith of each person and also the universe of His creation. He is THE LORD of mankind, the stars, the galaxy, the universe and everything one can think of. He is the author of every imaginable stories. Islam has nearly a billion followers yet their thinking too flaws in executing it in the name of Islam especially on Jihad which is only for Allah needs not for selfish or political collaborations. So about the Buddhists and the Hindus and other minor religious faiths in the world? They too walked on the wrong side of the fence. Paganism. The Lord God never approves at all!

And the population of the world is increasing. Currently over 6+ billion people on earth. Dont you think the Ancient Mayans may get it right that the world will come to an end on 23/12/2012? No??? The calculation was done many thousands of years ago by these Mayan who foresaw the destruction of our world.

The same story that God will make it right.....so will we get to know???