women don't lose your identity

When you are single

You have your own name

You write and sing it proudly

On papers and documents

You have enjoyed your freedom

Living with your identity

You have a face and a name

Every one calls you

Then you get married

You suddenly change your name

You hide your identity

You take your husband's name

You become Mrs So and So

You are proud with ring on your finger

You smile graciously losing your identity

So far so good when you are still married

When the split in marriage

You suddenly realize you want your name

You see it in your divorce papers

You see it as your identity

Where are you all these years?

You hide behind somebody's name

Women of the world

You shouldn't lose your identity