man and woman

Man and Woman. This is where the fun and problem....running out in our daily lives. Every marriage is to last through the shared journey....the laughter, the crying, the smile, the romance, the heartache, the financial spins, and what with in-laws.....when the foundation is porous, it is where the serious crack begun to bite off slowly at first then it begins to drag out the demons in the open which become a sleepless night every time the argument rings in the dark and light. Aging has become a drawback. For man looking for new conquests for woman losing out to the sweet woman living next door or in the office...Never once tell 'this is my wife and this is my husband' You put a label which becomes a trophy and a trophy stays in the cupboard for showing of past conquests...which become too cozy losing the warm and crazy relationship of courtship..This is married couple pitfall. The woman loses her identity...Sometimes I wonder why a woman seems so eager to call herself 'I am Mrs So and So' What happen to her name or identity?I always advice 'this is my girlfriend and this is my boyfriend' It gives one the adrenalin to pursue each other. It is the fun and games to build a strong relationship although they are married Work on the relationship day and night. Never forget to embrace or hug. It is the warm feeling of a need for both. Dont always try to win an argument. Look at the bigger picture. Give in doesnt mean you lose face; it means you treasure the sweet relationship. Above all remember God's wisdom.....