It is not easy to live life as a single parent. There are so many struggles to meet own obligations and the children's needs - food, school, encouragement, outing, money for this and that. A few go in by choice (like Azalina, Wati, Jodie Foster - they go for adoption to be single parent) Some are by circumstances others by love affairs. Pick a choice, it isnt easy to do parenting alone unless you are a rich cow...The children tend to do the opposite. Something to hit back at their parents. "Look you deserve it leaving us with one parent" In their eyes this is what they do. Will they grow out of it? The emotion will heal but the memory will stay. When they grow up, they will understand why. Right now the children just hit back without realizing their actions make the parent(s) hurt and feeling alone. Tears will flow which is good. Because emotion will be released and hurt feeling will go away in time. Life has so much to enjoy; dont let the small incident plays right into your weaknesses When you feel hurt, you realize you still can share your life with love. Life is a new page every day. It is in your hands to enjoy and realize its full potential. Nothing should block your way unless you allow it to happen. Also remember life is not smooth sailing all the times; there are hiccups, tears and sorrows,happiness and desires, needs done needs in limbo which why life is so much fun, it makes one goes out to achieve or keep trying to make it worthwhile. God graces is for those who tries and tries...
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