dont take drugs

Lindsay Lohan got arrested again. This time for drink and drive above the permissable level and also cocaine though the police in US said it wasnt found on her. This 20 years old woman is trying to destroy her life. A threat to herself if she doesnt grip her life together. Partying late at night.....you know the hours of sleep havent enough, the eyes tend to sway between lines or objects. I had this experience when I drove after 12 midnight from Alor Star to Kampar..after nearly 2 hours of driving I was on the wrong side of the road though my vision said I was on my side of the road. Lucky for me I recovered in time though at that time there werent cars on the other side...So I said it is my guardian angel watching me (She always looking after me...of course in between I got robbed and knifed in cinema which required 7 stitches but I was alright. Even before I reached home to my kampong people were talking about a guy got robbed and knifed in a cinema...News travelled so fast those years ago. And I am lucky to be alive....still kicking but the episode always keep me in check) Family unity is so important to sustain the stability in one's family. Lindsay Lohan has no family support because she broke away. Trying to be herself and her friends. But what are they? Party goers never stop and think what their actions will cost them....I hope the police sends her prison like Paris Hilton; in this way they may learn a well earned lessons for life. It reminds me of Jamal Abdillah who couldnt take fame and responsibility until today. He was sent to drug centre to recover but he admitted that he has still a long way to go. Married 3 times twice divorce and his 3rd marriage is heading for divorce too. Lately he was discharged from a magistrate court in Telok Intan when the police dropped the charges but his nephew served a 8 months jail sentence. It also bring me back to those years Fraser's Hill....where my friends then too were on drugs. Though discreet, my friends and I tried to help our friends. In the hill they seemed to recover and grow healthy and enjoying themselves. One was a resident in Fraser's Hill but stayed away in Klang Valley, partying too much and mixing with wrong people landed him using drugs. His father brought him back to the hill to recover. He managed to do that. Then he went down to KL again...old habits returned. His sister told us so..He did stay on the good behaviour but things werent working out for him. He did hold GM post in a numbe of companies but he didnt last in his working career. At one time in Penang he called me to meet up but he didnt show up to see me, he passed a not to me that he had to rush back to KL. We did talk some few years ago while he was attached in Malacca. A few years later I tried to call him there, the staff there told me he had left. Then I saw his name mentioned that he was working in another company in KL...Later he married a Malay woman and so I thought he could be fine. But I got an email message from his sister in Australia (she has migrated and married an Australian and settled there) that he had passed away.....I knew the reason...his drug habits he couldnt control it..The othe guy was a drug addict in KL. My colleague's father brought him to the hill to mix with us and worked ...Many years he stayed in the hill. When I left the Fraser's Hill he was still there. Subsequent years he went back home because his father passed away. The last time I heard about him he had gone back to his old habits....they said I won't recognize him at all...Till today I dont know if he is alive or dead...............Personally I dont drink or smoke......I never indulge in these habits though I was surrounded by friends who did...I guess they couldnt convert me...