domestic abuse

Why women and children got domestic abuse? I am thinking about the women who are scarred for life in the hands of their husbands/boyfriends. I always know that gangsters or rascals attract women. Maybe these guys are brave and willing to fight for any cause which attract the women. Perhaps, women choices are hard to understand. I have seen pretty women went out with ugly guys....or guys with a long list of police mapsheet. It is the bravery aspect I guess which attracted the women....but for the domestic abuse????? Women just keep silence. Do they enjoy the physical abuse? They dont really report on their husbands or boyfriends afraid of reprisals or what? In their minds they think by allowing themselves to be abused they could reform these sick guys? Mind you some women are highly educated yet they allow themselves to be used and abused - in mind and in physical form - but they fail to report because rasa malu nanti semua orang tahu? They should send the sicky guys to hell!!!!