sex crimes in the mind

Today I leave politics aside. Politics in the country always boil up the taxpayers. Everybody works hard, pay taxes, pay dues, put food on the table, pay mortgages, etc. When the government projects fail, taxpayers (through taxes) have to bail out these crony's companies. You dont hear the culprits are charged or put in suspended sentences or ask to step down....Nothing. So can see the shows directed by the sleeping beauty..........................I am going to write about sex. You hear it right here. This is just a diversion for my mind nothing is serious though it is said the Education Ministry wanted to introduce sex education in schools...........but I dont hear any concrete solution yet. Maybe these people feel too uptight or sex tight about it. You want to teach the people about sex or you dont? They talked for years yet no solution is in sight. You want to teach go and teach to the students from Form 1 onwards. Why feel so bashful about it? When I was in secondary school, the headmaster allowed The Family Planning Board to show a cartoon show on sex education. The hall was packed with all the students. It showed how sex is involved, what needs to be done, how to avoid pregnancy and how to put on condoms. After the short cartoon show, condoms were distributed to the students. I didnt know whether the message had achieved its audience target but I knew it helped to know how to avoid pregnancy then. I said before SEX IS A GIFT FROM GOD. It isnt a dirty subject or taboo subject or no discussion subject. I know it is hard to discuss it openly in the Asian context. This subject takes gut and positive mind to achieve its target if one wants to avoid pregnancy, avoid getting diseases or avoid getting HIV. Of course by now, one can surf it in the www to find things to read and understand. In the old days it was through magazines and sharing notes with others to achieve a certain level of understanding about sex in a person's life. With the muchrooming of internet knowledge, every one has access to the education about sex in the internet. So what is our Education Minister doing? It is better to do it now. Dont spend time trying to weigh the pros and cons before deciding what to do. Internet has all the shits you want to see and read then form your own opinion about sex. Many sex related crimes committed blaming on the sex movies seen by these people. What about adult persons? Married adults? Blame them on sex movies in the market or in the net? Sex crimes such as rapes, molesting people, sex not according to nature ( this I can't understand; we are nature so what is against nature?). I firmly believe sex crimes are committed by people who lack the mental capacity to control needs and desires. It is not relating to sex movies to get off to commit crime. If sex movies are blame for sex crimes, why for example Kelantan has a higher rate of sex crimes in the state? Kelantan is managed by PAS a muslim political party yet we read in the police statistics it has the highest sex crimes in the state. It tells something isnt it? When you have sexual problems, whom do you see? A sexual professional or sex therapist. You are not going to see the ordinary GP. This GP isnt trained to handle your sexual problems. It is the sex therapist who would help and guide you to achieve your sexual potential. One of the methods is seeing sexual movies..............dont look at me this way. It is something one has to learn to be a better understanding person in sexual encounters. The people in the South of our border has a leg up against us. The government there has passed law to legalize oral and anal sex in their relationships. Here we are still debating or trying to see beyond our coconut shells but we dare not touch it afraid crimes will be committed. When sex offenders are caught, they would blame on magazines or sex movies. I dont believe that. It is in the mind which made or break a person. Nothing to do with watching sex movies, reading sex novels or looking at sex magazines. IT IS THE MIND WHICH MADE THE DIFFERENCE. BECAUSE SEX IS A GIFT FROM GOD We are living in the blaming culture. Every time one loses one will blame somebody or things. (Like the country national player who blames his chief coach for his failure but he doesnt blame himself.)