sex must be free for husbands and wives

A wife made a police report on her husband for his kinky sex. Personally she doesnt enjoy sex. She needs education on sex. In her report she wrote her husband sodomized her in their home and in hotels. She also wrote her husband watched pornography. I mean what's wrong with that? There are many reasons guys want to improve their sex adventures. God gifts is sex and life. Why men and women dont enjoy it? Sex must be an adventure throughout one lives. Most marriages fail because sex becomes a routine - putt the hole on the golf field. Sex must have adventures. It can't be stale rides all the time. You dont eat nasi lemak everyday 3 meals a day, do you? You go for variety. Even drinks too. You may drink coffee/tea in the morning, in the afternoon maybe hot drinks and at night hot milk or plain water........you dont go for the same drink throughout the day, do you? As reported in the Durex sex survey, Malaysians never find sex satisfying about 68%. In other words, love affairs and prostitution flourish in our society and in the world. If you check the divorce statistics, it is always about sex. No fulfillment no adventure in sex. In the bedroom sex should be the saviour of souls. A gift which makes one feeling like god( small g not big G because humans can't equal to God) Somehow sex is also the destroyer of one's married life when one party isnt adventurous and lack of it. On religion each will interpret differently. In the Hadith the Muslims are prohibited to fornicate in the ass but they are allowed to play with their fingers but not actual penetration with the male members. In the Holy Bible there is nothing mentioned about anal sex prohibition between husbands and wives. In Songs of Solomon it is mentioned about anal sex where the maidens allow partners to take her from behind and still keep their virginity. I am looking at the husband and wife relationship. A wife should fulfills her husband needs; a husband should love his wife. In sex equation a wife should fulfills her obligations to her husband; a husband must take care of his wife. Sex has no limitations; it is where the adventure begins. The married couples should explore their sex lives to enrich them emotionally, physically and spiritually. Nothing is wrong with sex- straight or kinky. It is one's upbringing which destroys the pleasures of sex. The 'kiasu' Singaporeans now get it legalized. The Government of Singapore passed law to the effect that oral and anal sex is legal in Singapore. But I dont know how the Muslims there looking at it. I hold the view that sex with married couples shouldnt be controlled by any form of restrictions in their private lives.
Sex must be free for husbands and wives. When there is no adventure in sex, the marriage bed is doomed!!